After the Ashes

After the Ashes

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The Dress I Bought for My Husband’s Funeral Changed How I See People
I will never forget the moment.
Jul 13 • Leah Stirewalt
A Day Set Aside
Birthdays are very important to me.
Jul 9 • Leah Stirewalt
The Trip I Wasn't Supposed to Lead
In 2010, I had the opportunity to serve on a mission team in Liberia, West Africa.
Jul 6 • Leah Stirewalt
What I Stopped Explaining
My last husband, Joel, passed away over nine years ago.
Jul 2 • Leah Stirewalt

June 2026

Nothing Wasted
Much of what I write comes back to being widowed twice.
Jun 29 • Leah Stirewalt
I Always Say Nine
How many kids do you have?” Nine, I casually tell them.
Jun 25 • Leah Stirewalt
The Last Word
There’s a document open on my laptop right now, and the cursor has been staring at me from the same spot for the better part of an hour.
Jun 22 • Leah Stirewalt
Maintenance, Not Indulgence
Most mornings, before the house wakes up, I take my coffee and my Bible out to the porch.
Jun 18 • Leah Stirewalt
I Still Choose Joy
I found something I wrote in the summer of 2011, two months after I buried my second husband.
Jun 15 • Leah Stirewalt
I Came Home to the Same Life
The suitcase is still by the door.
Jun 11 • Leah Stirewalt
The Year Two Nobody Warns You About
Everyone shows up for year one.
Jun 8 • Leah Stirewalt
Why "After the Ashes"?
The casseroles ran out sometime in March.
Jun 4 • Leah Stirewalt
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